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Q&A: If somebody’s previous lived with two girls in a 3some situation…can they be happy with one girl?
Question by ~Some*girl~: If somebody’s previous lived with two girls in a 3some situation…can they be happy with one girl?
HI all,
My partner lived with two girls, his main girlfriend used to go swinging with him (like life at home were’nt enough)
He used to let her go off for s&m with some dude, cos he wasn’t into that. He’s told me he never really loved her…that she wasn’t ideal in other ways..but still.
When we started going out I didn’t realise he was addicted to porn for a while, and thats been a painful enough journey – he actually replaced our sex life with it, pretending to be ill…anything to get out of being with me and secretly going off and doing live cam girls and porn…
I know already u are thinking get rid of him…but…ugh, I love him and he goes to extreme lengths when we part its just not that simple
He’s got the porn thing under control and says it was mostly due to smoking too much weed ( i smoke tons taht never happened to me, I can enjoy porn then leave it for months! -but im a girl)
Anyone who has tried to have a one-on-one relationship after such a full on sex life….can they be faithful???? Won’t they be missing something better???
I’m so defalted, I’ve grown to hate myself thanks to impossibly beautiful whores-a-plenty, what should I do???
Best answer:
Answer by Julie H
Get out of there. He’s messing with both of you, he’s on drugs, he’s addicted to porn. How could you possibly think this situation could work out? It won’t. Just get out. I’m sure you are a nice person that deserves a nice boyfriend. If you don’t leave, you will only be setting yourself up for a very unhappy life.
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about 1 month ago
Well you are right I would say dump him and move on. He’s already put you aside once for something that isn’t real. I was married to a man for 7 years who’s parents were swingers…they started off cheating on each other and that led to swinging, they have been married now for 35 years. But is that really a marriage? I think not, because a marriage is a relationship between 2 people not a bunch of strangers being invited into your bedroom. So long story short, cut you loses and find someone “normal” please!
about 1 month ago
Wow, I need to find me a girl with no self esteem like yourself. Sounds like he’s having a blast!
about 1 month ago
Oh honey, you’re in a terrible position! You THINK you love this selfish idiot, because you’re so deflated and down on yourself that you are probably grateful to have him.
He will NEVER change, I can vouch for that on a personal level. My ex was into 3somes, and when I wanted him to commit to a relationship with me alone, it was useless! He was ok until he got drunk or high, and then all he could talk about was 3somes and swingers parties.
If it’s not your idea of life, then you are wasting your time with him, and I promise, leaving him will be hard, because you feel like a piece of crap, thanks to his behaviour, but you WILL get better on your own. It will take time, but you’ll get there. I have, and you will too!!
I left my ex in December, and now, I am on top of the world!!! I feel good about myself and actually laugh thinking about that clown and his messed up attitude to sex!
You need to be confident and happy in yourself, and this guy will never help you to get to that place.
Good luck, be strong and get rid of this sexual freak!
about 1 month ago
I lived with two women for almost two years. I had no problem going back to a one-one relation. Each life style has it own problems. The most important thing in a relationship is communication. If you can have meaningful discussions with him, work it out. If you can’t, then forget it because it is not worth it,
I really like your phrasing “impossibly beautiful whores-a-plenty” may someday be a classic phase.
about 1 month ago
What are you doing? you sound extremely weak and helpless. PLEASE do something good for yourself for once and get away from him. You don’t need it or deserve it but I really don’t think you know that. He doesn’t care about you obviously and in your mind way deep you have to know that’s true (if that’s really the case).
He’s not a man if he smokes weed and watches porn all day. he’s a boy and if you say with him its just making you a little girl.
Please be a real woman and move on. You can’t let him do that. Staying with him will only make him worse. Wait until he looses you and ends up alone. He will regret and figure it all out himself if he can be smart enough. Find a smart guy because you need one. One that has a life and knows what hes doing.
You sound like your confused and can’t make much decisions. But I can tell that your smart and can get out of the situation easily if you are strong.
But above all, listen to your heart about this. What does your own heart tell you? What do YOU want to do?