Question by ~Some*girl~: If somebody’s previous lived with two girls in a 3some situation…can they be happy with one girl?
HI all,

My partner lived with two girls, his main girlfriend used to go swinging with him (like life at home were’nt enough)
He used to let her go off for s&m with some dude, cos he wasn’t into that. He’s told me he never really loved her…that she wasn’t ideal in other ways..but still.

When we started going out I didn’t realise he was addicted to porn for a while, and thats been a painful enough journey – he actually replaced our sex life with it, pretending to be ill…anything to get out of being with me and secretly going off and doing live cam girls and porn…

I know already u are thinking get rid of him…but…ugh, I love him and he goes to extreme lengths when we part its just not that simple

He’s got the porn thing under control and says it was mostly due to smoking too much weed ( i smoke tons taht never happened to me, I can enjoy porn then leave it for months! -but im a girl)

Anyone who has tried to have a one-on-one relationship after such a full on sex life….can they be faithful???? Won’t they be missing something better???

I’m so defalted, I’ve grown to hate myself thanks to impossibly beautiful whores-a-plenty, what should I do???

Best answer:

Answer by Julie H
Get out of there. He’s messing with both of you, he’s on drugs, he’s addicted to porn. How could you possibly think this situation could work out? It won’t. Just get out. I’m sure you are a nice person that deserves a nice boyfriend. If you don’t leave, you will only be setting yourself up for a very unhappy life.

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