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Question by ♥IndomลbleƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ: What would you do if you were in my situation?
Please read all this before you answer my question, I would really appreciate it.
Thanks for your time.

Ten years ago I met my husband. I already had 2 daughters I had with my first husband.
When I first started dating my husband I didn’t pay rent, I lived in my mother’s house. My husband was still in the navy, he got his car stolen so I had to lend him 500 dollars so that he could buy a used car so that he could go to work. As time passed by, I had to take out the money I was saving from the bank so that we could stay alive, even though it’s said that you cannot survive in Mexico.
I could support my daughters and me all by myself. Then, just to be with him I had to stop doing what I was doing, fixing my teeth for example. I had to stop going to the dentist because I was helping him, so I was unable to pay for my treatment. I thought he would pay me back or that while we were together he would try to help me with my problem. Six years later we had a child together, he then decided to apply for four visas ( one for me, one for my baby and two for each one of my daughters ). I only accepted to come to the U.S. because that’s what he wanted.
When we finally settled in the U.S. everything started to be his way, I didn’t care about that, all I asked from him was for him to respect me and to not watch porn. He always puts us a limit on everything. I supported him so that he could finish college. He graduated from a college in San Diego, CA; then he decided he wanted to go to law school to become a lawyer. A law school from Florida offered him a scholarship, so he decided he wanted to attend to that law school. I supported him with his decision, so we then moved here to Florida. We came here with a small amount of money that was part of the scholarship he received. He thought that that was going to be enough money for us to live till he got the other part of the scholarship’s money, which he is not going to get till the second semester begins. I don’t have a working permit, so I can’t work. We’ve been living here in Florida for two months, during the first month he decided to go to a nude bar where he spent 1600 dollars in just 4 days. After arguing for a long time for what he had done, I decided to take the money I lend him 10 years ago. He then started to argue with me about that. A few days later we had a big fight because he was watching porn on his lap top, I tried to take the lap top from him but at the same time he was trying to take it away from me, he pushed me down and I fell on the ground, I hit my head with the couch and hurt my knee really bad. I couldn’t walk because my knee hurt so bad. There’s no one who can help me. I don’t know anybody. Also, I have to go back to San Diego in April to attend to an appointment with immigration but I don’t have any money to go. I don’t know what to do, what do you guys think I should do?

Best answer:

Answer by Backhoe
Leave him, U had a better life before.
Been there.

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